I always dread hearing these words. They were drilled into me from my ex, some ex friends, even teachers. I understand I am on my own pace or wave length then others, there's nothing wrong with that, but past experience has lead to the outcome of people giving up on having a relationship with me. Like it becomes hollow and I feel a nuisance; slowly fading out of the relationship. This piece definitely helped me process things and makes me want to improve on my end of relationships.